When men talk about what, outside of personality, a given woman finds super attractive about them, the list usually includes many parts of the body. But when the woman describes it, it often comes down to body language; The way you walk, the way you hold a glass, and even the way you button your shirt can be a huge and inexplicable effect. It’s not that a girl can’t appreciate certain physical attributes, but most of the time, it’s little gestures that can drive a woman crazy. And what’s funny is that the guy doesn’t even realize he’s doing something that’s exciting, because that’s just how natural it is (which, of course, is part of what makes it so exciting).
Women find these things attractive in men
Here, let us present a short list of some of the ordinary body languages of men that women have found to be very exciting.
Operate the steering wheel with just two fingers
When you’re in the car with a man, this exudes an air of complete control. It is as if the man’s body says, “I don’t even have to use my whole hand.”
Placing a hand on a woman’s back, guiding her to her seat
Body language experts will say that when a man puts his hand on his upper back, it can be a friendly gesture, but a hand on his lower back always implies desire. Aside from being a subtle brand of attraction, it’s also quite chivalrous, as you’re directing it at once and letting it go first. (Needless to say, this is a move that can only be done with a woman you date – not, say, a colleague at a work dinner.)
Extend one arm against the back of your chair
This is particularly nice when you’re at a restaurant together, or at a family function, as it sends a subtle signal to everyone that she’s your girl and you’re proud of her.
Put an arm around your waist
This is a very good protective gesture, especially when you are walking through an unreliable area, but somehow it is especially exciting when the man does it if he is on a phone call, to remind his girl that just because he is talking to another person does not mean that they have forgotten your presence.
Remove a shirt by pulling it over the head with just a thumb and index finger
There’s no logical reason why this is somehow more attractive than grabbing the shirt by the ends and pulling it out with both hands, but there it is.
Drink a bottle of beer with just two fingers
This is a movement that shows an air of comfort and security, of control over everything you do.
Take the wallet out of the front pocket of the pants
In theory, this shouldn’t be more attractive than pulling your wallet out of your jacket pocket, which in many ways is the most civilized move, but for some reason it’s irresistible to lean back and slip your hand into a pair of jeans.
Roll up a buttoned shirt to the elbows
This is one of those that had the first positions. For some reason, this is much more exciting with a button-down shirt than, say, a sweater, perhaps because it somehow says, “Yes, I am a professional man, but I am not afraid to get my hands dirty when necessary.”
A look of “soft eyes”
Much of what men are told that they are attractive revolves around being “dominant” and “assertive.” And although those may be, in fact, good qualities, one of the most voted responses was that feeling that a woman has when she is doing something, she looks up and finds her man looking at her with eyes that suddenly resemble little puddles of Water. It’s no wonder that women are more attracted to men with more “feminine traits” for long-term relationships.
Wear a good sweater
Maybe women have been instilled into thinking that this is attractive according to fashionable winter catalogs, or maybe it is just exciting because it is cuddly and protective. Also, it gives the woman the opportunity to “drop the handkerchief.”
Doing a standing stretch
When a man stretches out and his shirt is pulled up so that the V shape of his pelvis is barely visible, it is even better than being completely shirtless.
A comment from one woman was “just being helpful. It drives me crazy when my [boyfriend] fixes something.
Running fingers through her hair
Especially when they are doing it subconsciously, like while thinking, or after training to wipe the sweat off their foreheads.
Wear a plain black t-shirt
Especially when a man has muscular arms and a good body.
Although smoking is not something that is good for health, a group of women mentioned that lighting a cigarette safely and holding it in a rather masculine way is very attractive.
Put your hands in your pockets
Although putting your hands in your pockets may seem like a rather shy position, women find it attractive in many cases .
Be calm in stressful situations
It is a way of saying that they have security and control over a situation, and that is a sign of courage in the face of a challenge, which the woman finds very attractive.
Do something romantic
Many men think that being “romantic” means taking a woman out to a very expensive dinner or taking her on a boat across a lake full of swans, but that is not true. Often times, the most romantic gestures come from simply being thoughtful, like making her a cup of coffee every morning or doing the dishes one night when you know she’ll be tired of coming home late, or taking her to the bank where her first kiss was.
Be good with children
Seeing a man interact well with children sends a subconscious and evolutionary signal to a woman that he would make a great father. The mere act of watching a man kneel down and patiently explain something complicated to a child can give a woman chills .
Offer your seat on the train
A woman finds it attractive to see that her man is very considerate of others in urban transport and to offer the seat to her or another woman, an elderly man or a little one, whatever the case, that is an assertive point that she will make. a woman simply being drawn to him by that gesture.
Wrap your arms around him
By now, you’ve probably realized that being protective is very attractive to a woman on a deep, primal level. And nothing makes a woman feel more secure or adored than when a man wraps his body around her, especially when he stands behind her, like Atlas holding the world in his arms.
Holding a puppy
This actually stimulates all kinds of brain chemistry in a woman, particularly oxytocin, known as the “love hormone.”
Read a book
Nothing is more attractive than a man lost in a good book.
Be passionate about something
When a man talks enthusiastically about anything that matters to him, even if it is not really one of the interests that may attract his partner, it can be terribly attractive to her. For women, a man who is passionate about his dreams is very attractive because it shows a man who has goals and autonomy.
Focus on a task
“I love the look a guy gets on his face when he’s trying to figure something out,” wrote one woman in a dating journal. As with cooking, reading, and a passion for a subject, it’s a sign that a man doesn’t have the attention span of a three-year-old, which is good.