Women tend to have a very particular language when wanting to say something, and there are certain phrases that popular psychology has taken care of giving some meanings that are not so wrong, in this way we can figure out what phrases could be saying something when they actually mean another.

It cannot be generalized but if we can be sure that more than one phrase said by some women, they do not mean exactly what they feel.

“We need to talk”

This is probably what you have heard millions of times from your girl and if you did not have enough experience at first, you probably thought that she really said it until the next day, she uttered the most traumatizing phrase: “ We have to talk! “. Based on the urban dictionary this simple phrase, like many other phrases that women use, does not mean what it is really indicating, but is used to signal the end of the discussion, and to indicate that things have come to an end or are very close. close.

“Do what you want”

This is a trap. If your partner is saying this phrase, he is surely waiting to see if you are capable of doing such a thing, and deep down, that is exactly what he does not want you to do. If a woman who is in love tells you this, consider that you have only one option to drink, and that is not to do what you were going to do. The urban dictionary points out that there is a decent chance that this person does NOT want you to do what you were going to do. In fact, they likely want you to do the opposite of what you want to do.

“I need space”

In general, the need for space does not belong to a single gender, and in many cases mentioning it to your partner can help you find moments to reflect or be with yourself. However, there are times when this phrase is pointing out the opposite of what it says: this is the phrase that is used when someone wants to break up with you and does not want to sound so dry or cold, then it alludes to the need for their own space requires you to be away from him or her.

“Almost ready”

This is one of the most famous phrases that surely many already know what it really means. Millions of memes are out there on this topic. Most women can’t get ready in five minutes. She is probably saying this to warn you that it may take a little longer and that you already know.

“You are a very good person”

If you are interested in a girl and before confessing everything you feel you come up with the typical phrase “you are a good person”, it is one of the most subtle ways to indicate that you have no chance, that it will be better to rethink if what you want is a eternal friend or continue in another direction.

“Does this make me look fat?”

The point of asking this question about whether or not she looks fat or whether the dress looks good on her or not is to get the verification she needs from you, but doesn’t want to know your real opinion. So you should not always respond with what is the truth, if it is not something positive. This is a question that does not require an answer, but rather a positive affirmation to boost your self-esteem.

“I’m not hungry”

If she tells you she’s not hungry, there could be a million reasons for it. One of the main reasons could be the fact that she doesn’t want to cook. Another reason could be that you are trying to live healthy, however this will end when they see you eating. He will definitely join you, as it’s okay to break the diet every now and then, she says. However, you shouldn’t ask him the question: But didn’t you say you weren’t hungry? if you want to avoid problems.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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