Going through infidelity in a relationship is usually a very damaging and painful trance , often insurmountable; the reality is that it is not a question of preventing it since it is not a disease or a disease that directly affects, but has more to do with the integrity and the will of both members of the couple. Which raises an inevitable question: Is it possible to prevent infidelity? . The answer is yes, you can prevent infidelity.

Nowadays infidelity has taken on various nuances, modern society has ventured into new ways of being unfaithful. Social networks, new technologies and the Internet have opened a wide range of possibilities for infidelity that it is not even necessary to leave home to be unfaithful; added to those we already knew of yesteryear.

This, added to the mental manipulation created by the media that promote infidelity as if it were an airy and justified act, makes people feel that being unfaithful is something necessary or even something difficult to avoid, when in reality it is not. something difficult does not have to do with overcoming oneself, but rather, knowing exactly what we want and knowing how to respect the other.

Can infidelity be prevented?

Various experts agree that fidelity continues to be a matter of will, that is, whoever wants to be is faithful. However, there are ways to prevent or stay away from infidelity. Below we will address some things that we must take into account to discuss them as a couple.

Wondering what my partner would say if he sees me
We all have the freedom to flirt and be free in our actions, but we also know when we do not overreach and cross that barrier of insinuation. In these cases we can ask ourselves a question: What would my partner say if he saw me? If the answer is that he would feel disappointed or worried, surely you are going astray and your fidelity is in danger.

Flirtatious or flirtatious is not the same as flirting.
Many times infidelities come from provocations that we do without being aware that we are attracting someone directly. Having a flirtatious behavior could be said to be even normal and part of everyone’s personality; But what if that flirtation is directed at someone. If we take into account that this “flirtatious” behavior is aimed at a single person, red alert, infidelity is close.

Ask yourself what I am achieving with this
If our attitude begins to change and points to possible infidelity, it is time to ask yourself what are you gaining with this behavior, what do you want by crossing the line. It is because you feel more powerful or more sensual, perhaps because you are bored or something is missing from your relationship. The answer is probably the solution to this attitude and before acting, reflect very well on what you are doing for the relationship, if you cannot continue with your partner, it is preferable to leave it and live what you need to live without harming the other.

Talking about limits as a couple
For some an attitude or behavior is not taken with an act of infidelity, some may not see anything wrong with their partner chatting or talking with their ex, and for others it is a great betrayal. That is why it is important to set limits from the beginning so there will be no misunderstandings or guilt in the future.

Dr. Eric Jackson

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses. He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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