Giving love is one of the most comforting tasks, as it means giving something that you give to yourself and at the same time. If someone receives our love or lets it go, in either of the two occasions, it is we who leave them gifted, since love always returns to the source of the one who has given it. 

Sincere love is a beautiful gift of life, not all people know how to love with total dedication and honesty , so whoever gets a love of this type and lets it go is making perhaps the biggest mistake of his life. He who loves does not measure what he gives, he does not mind receiving in return, giving love fills him with satisfaction, he who gives love never loses, he loses who does not know how to receive it.

When loving causes pain

Sometimes the one who loves can feel very bad, they can even think that they have wasted their feelings, their time, their life, on someone who does not know how to value them, and that is that deception, betrayal and heartbreak can terribly destroy the noblest feelings of any person, neurologically stress hormones begin to be released and emotionally it is even worse, the person becomes psychologically affected, they experience pain difficult to bear, they lose energy, it is as if the love they have given he has lost, taking all hopes with him, leaving them empty and withered.

However, the one who loves without measuring is the one who gets the most out of a relationship , the person who truly loves without selfishness, without limits, connects with the positive energy of life , this energy that makes everything possible, that gives meaning to life. exist. For love injects enthusiasm, strength, vitality. Only those who have loved understand how that engine works that allows us to see the world of colors and challenge the impossible, motivated to be better every day and give the best of themselves.

Not being reciprocated is not a loss , it is an experience, an enriching lesson, after going through a feeling of loss, of hurt, the person is strengthened and able to get up and face any adversity, accepting this fact reaffirms the true concept of love, that which exists independently of the circumstances.

Not everyone is clear about the purpose of life, that of loving and being loved, although many times it happens that some people love those who do not love them, that they fix their love on someone who is not the one, perhaps this person already has another love and that is valid and must be respected, everyone is free to choose whom to love, love is not imposed, it is not something that can be forced .

Who does not know how to receive love

Who does not know how to receive love , who is not capable of loving cleanly, does not value or respect the feelings of the other person is the one who loses in a relationship, perhaps due to immaturity, fear of commitment or simply does not know how to love, maybe with As the years go by, he is only lacking the positive energy, the motivation of life that only love gives and realizes that he has lost the opportunity and the happiness of giving the best he had to give, he will only carry with him the guilt of having failed others and himself.

Success in a relationship comes from loving yourself, which will allow you to be able to love others and offer others and the universe the best version of yourself.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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