Negative gossip is spreading harmful news about someone, speaking ill of someone behind their back, speaking with contempt of others, ridiculing or laughing at someone, or saying something behind someone who you would not later say to their face.
The problem is that when we gossip, in addition to hurting others, we also hurt ourselves. We hurt ourselves because we teach people that we cannot be trusted. I remember being in a group of women who talked about other people without a second thought. Inevitably, I would walk away wondering what they were going to say about me once I got out of there. It was a very uncomfortable feeling. At that moment I realized that if we talk about acquaintances, there is no reason to think that we won’t talk about our friends as well.
They show a toxic personality
The picky people or always have something bad to say about others, are toxic people and lack of initiatives to surround himself with welfare and happiness, this apathy to seek the welfare and always emphasize the negative turns them into people who intoxicate those with those who speak.
The difference then seems very evident, the person who feels comfortable with himself and with what he has, can hardly use almost all day to look for the bad in others and be highlighting it from the rooftops, if you know someone like that, You can probably tell that they have a bitter life or lack a sense of humor (which is a privilege today) The most advisable thing is to get away from these types of people, but if instead it is you who lives criticizing and speaking ill of others, you should change your point of focus, and start looking at your life, perhaps there is more than one thing that you can adjust to fill your heart with joy and your days with good times.