Most people want to be irresistible and attractive to others from time to time. Being an attractive person may come naturally to some, but for the rest of us, it’s something we have to strive for.

Being attractive doesn’t always have to do with your image. Sure, there are some physical aspects that are considered attractive, but for the most part, it’s about attitude.

These are 5 behaviors to be an attractive person

There are certain behaviors that can make almost anyone attractive . These are some of the best ways to look irresistible, no matter who you are.

1. Stay away from the drama

Negativity only attracts negative people. Most people don’t want to date someone who is always surrounded by negativity and drama.

It is a burden on their own emotional resources, but it is also a burden on yours.

When you walk away from the drama, you are giving other people a safe space around them. People are more likely to want to go out with you, because they know they are going to have a fun time.

They are also more likely to talk to you and open up. When you stay positive and keep negativity to a minimum, you will be irresistible to almost anyone.

2. Allow vulnerability

To be more attractive , you need to connect with people on a personal level. If you stay closed, you won’t be able to do it very well. To connect with people, you must allow yourself to be vulnerable.

Open up and share your feelings and talk about the things you believe. When you demonstrate your vulnerabilities, other people will see you fully.

You become three-dimensional as soon as you allow yourself to be vulnerable. And for most people, vulnerability is incredibly attractive . People love being around people they can connect with on a deep and moving level.

3. Focus on others

The key habit to being more attractive is focusing on the people around you. It’s okay to take time for yourself when you need it, but attractive people do their best to focus on helping others.

This is also a good habit for more than just being irresistible. Spend less time thinking about what other people can do for you and spend more time thinking about what you can do for other people.

Of course, you have to be aware of your limits and know when to say ‘no’. Focus on the people around you and they will all find you as an irresistible presence in their lives.

4. Remember: always be yourself

We’ve all heard the typical ‘Be yourself’ more times than we can count. But it is a good idea to take this phrase and make it a habit.

Accepting your true self is the first step to being yourself. Being authentic is a way of being attractive to other people.

When we try to be someone we are not, we tend to fail. If you try to make yourself a different person, the truth will always come out.

It is better to be authentic and true to yourself. When you are yourself, you attract the kind of people who love you for who you are, not someone who you are trying to be.

5. Be respectful

Respecting yourself and others is a key behavior to be attractive. The attractive people treat everyone with respect.

Nothing is more irresistible than seeing someone treat a waiter or bartender like a human being. Respecting yourself is another way to be very attractive. This means taking care of yourself; Mind body and soul. It also means knowing your limits. Don’t let other people trample you.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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