Dating can be very complex or just one of the most amazing nights you’ve ever had with someone. However, there will always be those times when you run into nothing more than a bunch of idiots who just want to get you and show no real desire to get to know you other than just seeing you naked. But a strong woman would rather be alone than in bad company.

That’s right, a strong woman would rather be alone than with a jerk . Let’s not subtract words from this. It is a reality, and accepting it allows us to modify it. Can you count all the failed relationships in your life? Some ended because of the imbecility of your partner who did not respect you. And although, yes, what happens in a relationship, is always two, especially the lessons learned, there are times when the bad acts of one of them simply will not be tolerated.

A strong woman would rather be alone than be with an idiot

This can happen to both men and women, it cannot be denied that we all have our fair share of dating that has been really horrible and that we even like to share as anecdotes with our friends.

Of course, you don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy with yourself, but it’s also really nice to have someone who is on the same page as you, and who wants to spend time with you and do all the things that you both have in common.

Yes, he is cute and sexy and you know that nobody is perfect so you can give it another try He will change, you tell yourself. But the reality is that possibly not. We all have flaws, but lying and cheating are options. Choices that were made consciously. You don’t need that. You don’t need to stay with a liar to be happy.

However, it can sometimes seem like there is absolutely no one else who wants to be willing to want to date you, but being with someone who is going to treat you like trash is the opposite of what a strong woman wants for her mental stability.

Pride and dignity before bad company

You don’t need a man by your side who turned out to be an idiot. Avoid these types of people as best as possible, it is important that you show others that, not only are you NOT an easy person that you are willing to settle for almost anything that comes your way, but that you have pride and know what it is. dignity and that you expect the other person to respect your preferences, how happy you are with your life, and your happiness in general.

There are so many things out there to explore, list the things you like to do and see if you have done them, and if you ever felt free to do them with someone.

Being alone is not the same as feeling alone

This is the thing that you need to take into account a lot: your happiness, the more capable you are of exuding this type of feeling to the people around you, the more you will be able to find someone who has a lot in common with you. Do not forget the formula “pride and dignity” that has nothing to do with being selfish or haughty, it is self-love, and self-love will help you to jump the barrier between being alone feeling lonely, and alone feeling happy.

And speaking of being alone feeling lonely, many times people forget this part of themselves and fall to pieces, because they think that there will be no one who will be able to share their happiness with them, and as long as they are with someone, they will conform with whatever. You can be happy and not be in a relationship too.


And although it is nice to have a partner, it is prettier when you are happy with them. When not, you don’t have to miss anything. Finding the right man shouldn’t be such a big deal while you’re alone. Being alone is not the same as feeling lonely. You can feel lonely even in a relationship, being alone is feeling free.

Don’t let others trample on your happiness

What matters most is that you focus on your personal goals, especially when it comes to dating, because you don’t want to waste other people’s time, and you don’t want to waste yours on people who don’t deserve it.

Just to reiterate, dating someone else can be very complex or surprising, it all depends on your perspective as well as how the other person is treating you.

So the next time you decide to date someone, keep your head up, follow your philosophy on this, be yourself, and most importantly don’t let others trample on your happiness. Now, you don’t have to remain completely closed off to the possibility of a relationship, and you don’t have to make it your main focus either.

Live your life and be open to men, but with the mindset that your time is valuable and not to be wasted. Anyone who’s not in it for the right reasons put it aside, leaving you with only real, workable romantic options.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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