There are many ways to raise the level of sensuality in your relationship. But these 6 are less well known and a bit weirder than you might expect. We all have those moments when we feel like we want to add some spice to our relationship. We cook special foods, we wear the little black dress, we stroke the right place on the neck, we do the things that we know are sexy. But what about the lesser known things? The next 6 definitely fall into that category. These are some of the surprising and weird things your man finds sexy .
8 surprising things men find sexy in women
1. Your scent
It’s true, your man loves your scent, and we’re not talking about your perfume. Actually, there is some science behind how the smell of your body attracts your partner.
Our bodies contain a large bundle of molecules, called the major histocompatibility complex (MHC). This MHC has a direct effect on the genetic makeup of our immune system, including how our body odor smells.
Psychologist Rachel Herz says, “Body odor is an outward manifestation of the immune system, and the smells that we think are attractive come from people who are most genetically compatible with us.”
2. The confidence you show
For example, dance. Yes, even if you are the most uncoordinated person in the world. If you’re not afraid to have fun and let go from time to time, regardless of how someone else perceives it, then you are confident. And, you guessed it, men find confidence extremely sexy.
3. Your interest in something he likes
You like video games? Take a control one day and join him on the battlefield. Do you like to prepare amazing meals in the kitchen? Ask questions about their process and offer to help. Whatever it is, find something that he really enjoys, and participate in it. Show some interest in the things that matter to him. Not only is it a change for most men, it helps establish a solid foundation for the relationship.
4. That you read
Men like women who read. Maybe it’s because readers have scientifically shown that they are more open-minded and empathetic. Two studies from 2006 and 2009, published by Raymond Mar, a psychologist at the University of York in Canada, and Keith Oatley, a professor of cognitive psychology at the University of Toronto, further explain this proven theory.
5. A little dirt please
It’s not a complete mess, just a bit of a mess. Guys appreciate a little chaos in their environment from time to time. Also, if you relax on the neatness level, they can also relax a bit, which makes things less stressful for everyone.
Let the dishes pile up overnight, put your laundry on the floor, fix it in the morning, and just enjoy the two of you tonight.
6. Intelligence is sexy
Speaking a foreign language, having a conversation and eloquently stating your position, having a thirst for knowledge, discussing the infinite possibilities beyond our galaxy… well, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you know that intelligence is sexy.
7. Sense of humor
You don’t need to be a ‘clown’ obviously or a comedian to have a sense of humor. Just enjoy the little things and have a positive attitude towards life.
8. Reading glasses
Men find women who occasionally wear reading glasses very sexy. And more particularly attractive and cute when she wears glasses and her hair in a ponytail at the same time.