Setting requirements is important to a relationship, but demanding impossible things or hurting the other person can weaken and break relationships.

7 things wise women shouldn’t demand of their partners

Many women think that men owe them something. It is an approach to relationships that can be fatal to maintaining trust and mutual respect. However, many women realize this only when it is too late.

1. Don’t ask me to take care of you, be self-sufficient

Of course, sometimes we need support and help in difficult times. However, the most important thing is not to create in a man the feeling that he is responsible for all your behavior and your failures. We are women who can take care of themselves, not girls who need to be taken care of . Protection is a gesture resulting from your initiative, which strengthens the relationship and does not constitute its basis.

2. Give up what you like and love

A man should never be required to quit his job or hobby, for example, so that he can spend more time with you. An intelligent woman knows that this  will make him unhappy . His life consists of many small elements, not just his love for you.

3. Separate yourself from your friends and family

You may not be able to support one of their friends or relatives. But this does not mean that you are obliged to give up any contact with them for your own good. Even if you think it has a negative effect on him, that is not your choice. He deeply values ​​the friendship he has forged over many years, the  relationship with his family is no less important to him than yours is to you  .

4. That share your interests by force

If he hates dancing, but you dream of dancing a waltz with him, chances are he will refuse and no matter what, you shouldn’t demand of him. Imagine how you would feel if he tried to force you to do something you hate.

5. Let it change for you

A woman who knows the true value of relationships does not need to demand that her partner change. She knows that he is in love with a real man who will change only when he feels it is necessary or simply if he wants it himself. You are a woman who accepts him for who he is  and who inspires him to become a better person, but does so in a discreet way.

6. Forget about the existence of other women

The time has come to face the truth: men cannot ignore other beautiful women. If they were to do this, it would be  contrary to their nature (of course, we are not talking about allowing them to openly flirt with others). Female eyes are also sometimes directed at other men, but this does not mean that they want to cheat on their partner or that they do not love him.

7. That he give you evidence of his love

A wise woman does not require any proof of love from her partner or demand evidence that he is not cheating on her. When the relationship between her and her partner is based on trust, the  woman will not ask you to let her check her phone or try to access her email.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses. He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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