Finding a good man is difficult to do. Women feel sorry for today’s men, but the standards by which today’s women choose their partners continue to rise. Women need to feel safe and loved in a relationship, and while that can be accomplished outside of the bedroom, paying attention to how a man treats you in bed can also be a sure sign that he really is a man in love.
7 things only a man in love wants to do in bed
If you’ve been wondering whether or not he’s “material” to marriage, being in bed with him might give you the clue to be sure. Sometimes love gestures seem corny or forced, but if your man does any of the following, it means that he really is a man in love .
Enjoy kissing you
Your lips are 100 times more sensitive than your fingertips, and a passionate kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. So if your man keeps kissing you over and over, no matter where the two of you are, it means that he really loves you! They also seem unable to control themselves, so essentially, more kisses means more love, and in bed it means that they are not really interested in reaching the end goal too soon, but rather, they give space to contact through kisses because essentially that means they want more connection which in turn means there is love.
Kiss your chest
You are your man’s wife and he is your man. He will feel comfortable around you and placing your head on his chest (close to your heart) will make him feel safe and at home. There is no better feeling in the world than your man lying with his head on your breasts while letting all his worries and stress go away. He loves you, he trusts you. Being physically close builds confidence in the bedroom, and if he wants to approach you like this outside of the bedroom, that’s great too.
Play with spanking and squeezing
We are not talking about domestic violence (that’s the opposite of love!). If he really loves you, he probably loves everything about you. That includes your body as well. If he loves you, he will never stop spanking you, consider it a compliment. He will grab you, squeeze you, shake you, and kiss you every chance he gets! This is his way of showing how much he is in love with your body.
It’s a blast bomb by your side
Being intimate is great. If your man loves you, he will be sure to show it off in the bedroom. So, get ready to have the best night of your life, every night. The more you turn on, the more he will get excited and reciprocate. If your man can satisfy you in bed, he’s a keeper.
Tells you his fantasies
Communication is the key to any great relationship. If your partner loves you, he will entrust you with his darkest fantasies (who knows, maybe you can even indulge in some). When someone opens up to you without hesitation and trusts you, they are madly in love with you. If you are going to marry someone, he needs to be able to share his fantasies with you, and you need to share your fantasies with him. If you can’t be honest about what you want and need in the bedroom, what’s the point?
He stays behind after sex
How many times have you seen this happen? After a great passionate night, the man gets up and goes on his way. While this may happen one night, we believe it does not really represent what “love” is. If that were the case, we would call it “making love” rather than just having casual intimacy. If your partner stays with you after the two of you break up, pulls you close and hugs you, it probably means that they really love you.
A man in love has manners
A generous lover understands that men and women have different needs and that there is no need to rush any of that. If you find yourself in a relationship with a guy who is kind and considerate in his day-to-day life, he’s likely a kind and considerate partner in the bedroom. If your man makes sure that you “finish” before he does, then never let him go. Allowing you to finish before him means he’s kind, selfless, and wants to take care of your needs more than he cares about his.
You may not think that a strong, healthy sex life is important to a long-term relationship. Men like this are really hard to find and are often found after searching a very long time.
Having intimacy and physical contact with our partner is something natural and a wonderful part of life and if you are lucky enough to find someone who shakes up your world, do not let him go. If you can share the most intimate parts of being human, you can share anything. So consider this list the next time you meet a new man, and ask yourself if he is a candidate for a husband using this handy list. Remember also to think about what is important to you: if you don’t like a man like that, don’t marry a guy with these characteristics. Obviously.