Many relationships can “go cold ” for various reasons, however, they can also occur suddenly, without warning. In most cases, relationships can reach a flat stage, where monotony and routine win. It is here where some signs can begin to be noticed where you can perceive that your partner is no longer in love with you, or has begun to slowly move away.

The worst thing about a separation is that these situations can come out of nowhere. You might think that your relationship is stable and there is no problem, but that does not necessarily mean that your partner feels the same way or is still in love. If you are paying the necessary attention to your relationship, you will be able to tell when things start to take a turn and the relationship cools.

It is not advisable to ignore the signs that may indicate that your partner is no longer in love or that he is having an estrangement, because this can get worse over time and things will not have an end in common agreement, much less a happy ending. The ideal is to be able to talk, and if there is something to rescue and both are willing, fight for love.

Signs that your partner is no longer in love

If you have any suspicions or hunches that things are not going well, here are six obvious signs that your partner is having doubts about whether he still wants to be with you or still feels the same love he did for you.

1. Shows a total lack of interest in you

One of the most obvious signs that your partner could be going through the phase of withdrawal and heartbreak is that he has no interest in the events of your life, and you can easily notice that.

If you find your partner flirting (jokingly or on your back) and spending time with other people more often than he was, it’s a good sign that he’s getting ready to pack up and get out of your life.

As mentioned before, good dialogue and communication is the best solution to clear up doubts and get both members of the couple to get the best possible way out.

2. He blames you for everything bad in his life

If your partner has suddenly made you the culprit for all the problems in his life, it is a good sign that he is going through a phase of estrangement from you, and even puts the weight of his remaining lack of happiness on your shoulders. manifested by blaming others, this unhappiness can reveal the absence of love towards his partner, it could even show dissatisfaction with himself. They also tend to see their partner as an impediment to achieve fulfillment and happiness, making it clear that he is not in love as he once did.

3. They always have an excuse to avoid you

Does your partner suddenly have to stay up late at work every night or go on business trips every weekend or refuse to go to parties and friends’ gatherings with you?

That may be a sign that they are trying to avoid spending time with you and may not want to be with you anymore. And unfortunately, in some cases, they may have found someone else to be with.

4. His future plans do not include you

Sometimes people accidentally find out that their partner is making plans for the future that don’t involve him or her. If you find out that your partner’s plans for the future do not actively involve you being by their side, it is time to move on alone or alone. And it is also very important to be clear that if we continue together, the time will come when the future becomes the present and there is no longer anything that unites them in terms of feelings.

5. They feel they don’t need to explain themselves

When someone has decided that they no longer want you to be part of their life, it often happens that the person does not feel it necessary to give some explanation for their very different behaviors or give reasons why they have changed, or to demonstrate what they really feel.

If your partner cannot even explain why he wants to get rid of you and the relationship, surely it is better to continue without that person, since the lack of interest in your feelings shows that he will not even think about amending the relationship.

6. Your partner is hurtful and disrespectful to you

Sometimes the signs that it’s all over are incredibly obvious. If your partner regularly disrespects you, degrades you, constantly despises you and generally shows apathy towards you, it is very likely that all is lost already, because disrespect is not something one should get used to. live, much less tolerate and justify, this is a clear sign that your partner is no longer in love with you.

You should never try to blame yourself for the lack of respect you receive, and even humiliations, this is not justifiable whoever it is that tips it, and much less if it is your partner.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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