Confidence in ourselves is one of the most valued abilities in society today. A confident woman is capable of responding assertively to all situations that arise in life.

5 things a confident woman does differently

He does not doubt his actions, he behaves true to his thoughts and always seeks to demonstrate his way of being. Surrounded by a constant barrage of social pressure, it is no wonder that it has become one of the most attractive elements in both genders.

This security can be seen in their behavior and way of acting, these 5 signs being the most characteristic of self-confident women , are you one of them?

Control your emotions in every situation

Many women mistakenly think that withdrawing oneself is a sign of personal confidence. Controlling your emotions is done both by confessing what you feel and by keeping what you don’t want to say. You know who you are talking to, the context you are in and your mood at the time. We show insecurity when we hide feelings from our partner, the same as if we tell anyone our deepest doubts, but be careful, we must not confuse being self-confident with irresponsible when expressing your emotions.

Difference between real friends and acquaintances

This is one of the clearest differences between confident and insecure women. Acquaintances who pose as friends we have many, very few real friends. Leaning on anyone’s shoulder not only won’t help us feel better, it can even be counterproductive. Being able to correctly consider the people who usually meet us is an essential quality, having to do it even with people we see on a daily basis and we clearly notice that they do not appreciate us as much as they seem.

Caprices and love, both exist

Culturally, it is always associated with the woman seeking more real love, even being her role in society; it’s not like that at all. A confident woman knows that whims in love are natural , giving them to her if she wants. It does not mean that she is not faithful or that she can be madly in love with a man, it is to know that she has the right to everything she wants in this field as long as she treats others with respect. An infidelity would never be justified, but it would be justified to be meeting several men at the same time without being afraid of the gossip against him.

He says what he thinks whenever he can

If you are confident in yourself, you are not afraid to speak your thoughts out loud. It does not mean being rude, it is saying things clear when we think we have reasons to do so. It occurs both in a couple, work relationships or with the family, having to be self-conscious when speaking is a sign that we are not sure of our thoughts or of the reactions we expect when saying them publicly. However, being confident also takes a somewhat mature attitude when it comes to expressing what you think, since you know what, how and when, to say what you think.

If you want something you go for it

The last sign that differentiates self-confident women is not to doubt what they want , going to get it at all costs. It is particularly noticeable in love, when we see a woman approach the man she likes. Needless to say, the enormous attraction this generates. Insecure women try to avoid difficulties, waiting for goals closer to their current possibilities to emerge or letting themselves be carried away by apathy. It also happens in cases as common as buying themselves whims or aspiring to a job promotion: they have no limits in their aspirations.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses. He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

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