It seems like it takes a lot of work to find a soul mate . We go through life with a million expectations of what we want in a partner. We get on online dating sites. We go to various places to try to get to know them. We go through countless processes and debates to find the chosen one. But it doesn’t have to be that difficult. Your soulmate is there waiting to align with you.

10 ways to attract your soulmate into your life

1. Be happy

Joy is contagious. Laughter is compelling. Joy is a high vibration in our bodies. When we take life with this high frequency we manage to attract the things we want. Nobody wants to be in an unhealthy relationship. Happiness is a fantastic path that forces others to travel with you.

2. Be sincere

Do you really know what you want from a partner? Be honest about the things you want and the things you won’t tolerate. You cannot attract your soulmate based on misconceptions and lies. You need to be honest and true to yourself. You are the only person who knows what you can live with and what you can’t live with.

3. Let go of loneliness

You cannot attract your soulmate if you are entertaining someone in the meantime to fill an empty space. You are not obligated to be alone forever, but life cannot provide you with a life partner as you cling to someone you know is not the right fit for you. Let go of the idea of ​​loneliness.

4. Rearrange your ideas with visualization

We all have an ideal person of what we want in a partner. Use this to attract your soulmate. Make a display chart. Write in a journal the qualities you want in your partner. Make clear intentions of what you want as a lover, partner, friend, and parent for your children (the ones you have and the ones you love in the future).

5. Heal past wounds

You cannot attract a healthy relationship when you are carrying the wounds of an old relationship. You cannot feed love in a society when you are still full of resentments and regrets for someone else from the past. Those things will not allow a wonderful new person to participate in your life. This way you can only attract the same type of person, repeating the same painful lessons.

6. Make your life a playground

Enjoy the ability to be with yourself. Be creative. Take classes and find a hobby that enriches your soul. Another person is not going to cure you of loneliness. That might even exaggerate those emotions. You have to learn to have fun and to enjoy the childhood moments that are fragments of your whole.

7. Forgive yourself

Why is forgiveness important when attracting a soulmate? Because forgiveness sets you free. Allow your vibration to rise and feel no more pain. Forgiveness is never for another. It is an act of letting go of all the past emotions and drama that you played out in the past. Forgiving yourself makes room for true love.

8. Make space in your life

This is literally and metaphorically. If you want a soulmate you have to make room in all aspects of your life. Remove a drawer in your bedroom, make room for someone else’s clothes in the closet. It messes up your life mentally and physically. You attract what you put right there. If there is no room in your house for someone else, how can you expect your life to align with the right person who will take part in your home and your life?

9. Drop expectations

No two relationships are the same. Your high expectations of what you will find in a relationship are irrational and will stop the flow of true love. Expectations are dangerous. They are part of a controlling mind. You cannot expect perfection. You can only attract what you are. The more loving you are, the more love you attract. Like attracts like. You won’t be disappointed if you have no expectations.

By Dr. Eric Jackson

Dr. Eric Jackson provides primary Internal Medicine care for men and women and treats patients with bone and mineral diseases, diabetes, heart conditions, and other chronic illnesses.He is a Washington University Bone Health Program physician and is a certified Bone Densitometrist. Dr. Avery is consistently recognized in "The Best Doctors in America" list.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *